I couldn't stop myself to write my new lesson in belief context. Here is what I learned....
when we are child events happen and we just watch them and give them an immature meaning, and we trust those meaning, review them, match them with our own image of reality and make abridge between our inner self ant outside, confirming those immature meaning again and again,....
And you might guess what will happen in our inner self when we move forward in our lives, the old meanings become our reality, they show themselves again and again , they have now created a strong belief system within us and we expect outside to prove them, so we start behave so that prove them as right entities......
Oh !!! so difficult to stand up again unless we get back in life to our little inner child and ask him/her if all those meanings are really true?
Take his/her hands in ours and assure him/her that the life will show up differently if she stay in the confidence of flourishing........touch her/his heart with our mature one and give her a safety she needs for changing those old meanings in a calm environment.
NOW a new happy healthy Life has begun , with new beliefs.
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Manifest what you want most
These days are manifesting days to me! It is because I have manifested several things in just a few days.
you might ask how?
It's easy ! just the way the movie secret showed , but let me tell you the most important steps you must take in order for Law of Attraction to work.
you might ask how?
It's easy ! just the way the movie secret showed , but let me tell you the most important steps you must take in order for Law of Attraction to work.
- First of all you must get rid of old negative beliefs that take you back and make you stuck and stop and stay in the realm of possibilities
- then you need to make an intention
- the next step would be visualize what you want in the way that feel it with as much your sensations as you can
- the last step before manifestation is, letting it go and getting back to life with joy, love,excitement and expectation
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
There are sometimes when we don't know how to response........response comes from a grown and positive personality , but what to do when we face people who are negative and/or immature, people who live in the past and not open to a constructive conversation?
People who think they are the center of the universe.....based on our standards and boundaries , maybe we decide to remove them from our lives but what if they are our family members?
People who think they are the center of the universe.....based on our standards and boundaries , maybe we decide to remove them from our lives but what if they are our family members?
Friday, November 23, 2012
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Happy to start a new chapter of my life
Monday, November 28, 2011
How do we react and why?
Finally! I'm here again, after a long time of not being able to access my blog...
One of my friends, one day said : " It's so very difficult tolerating my old angry mom who is always judges others, yells and blames, It gets much more difficult when she starts to curse when others don't do what she wants".
As a coach who wants help others to stay happy, I asked her what is annoying her most? she said:" The way she treats people around her,even me, when people obey her, she likes them but if they resist to obey just after a few moment of helping her,she starts to curse..and I believe her curses work, since she is my mom I think she has to be obeyed always and God will never forgive me if I don't follow her orders. I don't know what to do?"
WOW!!....I said:" you believe she has right to curse you and others,right?"
: "yes"
: "how do you react this action of her?"
: " I stay silent for a while and when she doesn't stop I react the same as her, I think by her curse my future is destroying and I get angry"
: "aha...you feel angry because you believe God is waiting to obey her orders even if she is wrong and it destroys your future, so you get angry and feel annoyed "
: "yes, so what should I do?"
: "sounds like your anger and annoyance come from your believes about God's treats!"
: that's right
: what belief can you replace that keeps you calm when she yell or ....
:" I think I have to find one so that I think differently when she curs"
:" aha"
:" maybe I can repeat in my mind that GOD loves me and her both so he judges based on truth not based on her curs and leave her for a while until she stops"
: " good idea"
:" oh yes! thank you I figure it out..ha ha ha, everything was coming from my negative feelings and they came from negative believes about GOD and universe"
One of my friends, one day said : " It's so very difficult tolerating my old angry mom who is always judges others, yells and blames, It gets much more difficult when she starts to curse when others don't do what she wants".
As a coach who wants help others to stay happy, I asked her what is annoying her most? she said:" The way she treats people around her,even me, when people obey her, she likes them but if they resist to obey just after a few moment of helping her,she starts to curse..and I believe her curses work, since she is my mom I think she has to be obeyed always and God will never forgive me if I don't follow her orders. I don't know what to do?"
WOW!!....I said:" you believe she has right to curse you and others,right?"
: "yes"
: "how do you react this action of her?"
: " I stay silent for a while and when she doesn't stop I react the same as her, I think by her curse my future is destroying and I get angry"
: "aha...you feel angry because you believe God is waiting to obey her orders even if she is wrong and it destroys your future, so you get angry and feel annoyed "
: "yes, so what should I do?"
: "sounds like your anger and annoyance come from your believes about God's treats!"
: that's right
: what belief can you replace that keeps you calm when she yell or ....
:" I think I have to find one so that I think differently when she curs"
:" aha"
:" maybe I can repeat in my mind that GOD loves me and her both so he judges based on truth not based on her curs and leave her for a while until she stops"
: " good idea"
:" oh yes! thank you I figure it out..ha ha ha, everything was coming from my negative feelings and they came from negative believes about GOD and universe"
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